{"id":340,"date":"2025-02-18T17:28:04","date_gmt":"2025-02-18T17:28:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sites.wp.odu.edu\/dymphine\/?p=340"},"modified":"2025-02-18T17:28:04","modified_gmt":"2025-02-18T17:28:04","slug":"blog-changing-views","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites.wp.odu.edu\/dymphine\/2025\/02\/18\/blog-changing-views\/","title":{"rendered":"Blog: Changing Views"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p id=\"block-f1628661-1c36-4657-ab17-d0bddd040c13\">For years I thought that if a spouse cheated on the other spouse, the answer was to leave. That was until maybe two years or last year where I read an Instagram comment that said not everyone wants to be a single mom. This was in relation to how Beyonce made a whole album about Jay Z cheating on her but decided to go back to him anyway. I never forgot that comment because it made me look at spouse cheating on another spouse differently. I&#8217;m just gonna write that I think it&#8217;s okay for somebody to decide to stay and fight for their family even when they have the right to leave. I mean who does indeed want to be a single mom? Now I&#8217;m gonna say not all the time is staying in a toxic marriage is a good thing, I just think it&#8217;s not wrong to give a second chance. After that, if the situation stays toxic it&#8217;s up to the person to decide whether they want to leave or not. Now if there&#8217;s cheating between boyfriend and girlfriend, I say dump them. I say this because how someone treats you before marriage shows how they will treat you during marriage plus boyfriend and girlfriend relationship isn&#8217;t as serious as marriage.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For years I thought that if a spouse cheated on the other spouse, the answer was to leave. That was until maybe two years or last year where I read an Instagram comment that said not everyone wants to be a single mom. This was in relation to how Beyonce made a whole album about&#8230; <\/p>\n<div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/sites.wp.odu.edu\/dymphine\/2025\/02\/18\/blog-changing-views\/\">Read More<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":29961,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","wds_primary_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.wp.odu.edu\/dymphine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/340"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.wp.odu.edu\/dymphine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.wp.odu.edu\/dymphine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.wp.odu.edu\/dymphine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/29961"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.wp.odu.edu\/dymphine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=340"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sites.wp.odu.edu\/dymphine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/340\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":341,"href":"https:\/\/sites.wp.odu.edu\/dymphine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/340\/revisions\/341"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.wp.odu.edu\/dymphine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=340"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.wp.odu.edu\/dymphine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=340"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.wp.odu.edu\/dymphine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=340"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}