Blog Ten 12/06/2020
I started off really excited about this class , prepared and ready to go ! I started off ready to go, I was going strong and then I hit a wall, with working full time and the amount of work some of my classes had I did end up missing some assigments, I still tried to do a lot and mostly everything assigned to us. My attitude toward this class is still the same in the beginning I learned a lot about my self and how I treat others and what type of lover I am towards my boyfriend. If I took this class again I would for sure read more in our text books. I would take better notes and not so lengthy notes and I would also do my work sooner than waiting to the last minute to do things. This class has taught me quite a big but the biggest thing that stuck with me the most is they type of lover that I am. Not only does this help me with my boyfriend but it also helps with the type of person I am going to be in my life with reacting to people. At the end of the day this class was great and i am so glad i could take this class with Professor Muth!
Blog Nine 11/22/2020
I have for sure learned alot in this class and with these blogs.
- Learning how emotinla i am. With the Emotional test that we took in blog 7 i learned that my emotions can go back and forth. I have a great self regulaion of what tupe of person i am.
- I now Asssociate every song that i listen to a person in my life. Thanks to blog 3. It made me realize that every song has a story and that story can represent how you feel about someone or a story you involove with someone.
- I also learned in Blog 2 that i could become a better student with the GSE scale. Naswering those questions were really tought and made me think that i could use a little more planning when studying and to study more hard.
Blog Eight 11/15/2020
I personally feel like this Article was very accurate honestly but only in a 90s era way. I do feel like that in the later years mean were more controlling towards there women and women did everything that husband or boyfriend wanted and needed. I feel like this generations of Couples are little more 50/50 in things and not so reliant on there spouse. Now with that being said, i also feel like relationships last for shorter times then when our grand parents were married and stuff because we are so self reliant and we dont need the need other people to take care of us as people. But with that i do feel like men are very threaten by females who dont need them, so they grow trust issues against them and some type of resentment.
Men Upsetting Women
- When they arent one time
- Talking to other girls
- Not wanting to come around there family
- Thinking they are cheating
Women Upsetting Man
- Not wanting to have sex
- talking to much
- Changing after having kids
- House is Dirty
- Dinner is not ready
- Not cooking there favorite food
Blog Seven 11/08/2020
The difference between Self-Regulation and Emotional Intelligence is what you you think as a person and how you feel as a person. Emotional Intelligence to me is the ability to control my emotions and handle different relationships and situations with lovers or friends. I feel like my emotional Intelligence is lacking. I have came to the point in my life that I don’t really try to make friends so I became very stand offish to people because I can’t deal with other problems when I’m going through things my self. With my relationship with Desmond, is a different story. I am very open towards him and I express how I feel when something is bothering me or I am just not feeling it I let him know. A few months ago I was diagnosed with Anxiety and was put on different types of medications to control it, this diagnosis made things very hard to express how I felt I would just hold my feelings in until I busted out in tears. So me being able to express my feelings towards Desmond is a really be deal to me because being diagnosed was a very rough patch for us but we made our way out it.
Not only did it made things round for Desmond and I, it made it rough for me at work. I would take on to many tasks because I knew it needed it to be done and then have little mental break downs when I wasn’t finishing it fast enough or am getting behind in work. So yes, I do need to work on my emotional intelligence and like the tests I took I am just okay with my emotions and just kind of okay with handling situations.
Test Websites:
How Emotionally Intelligent are you ?https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/ei-quiz.htm
Emotional Intelligance Test https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/tests/personality/emotional-intelligence-test
Blog Four 10/25/2020
- Credible Soursce: https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/daily-life-coping/holidays/halloween.html
- Non-Credible Sourse: https://www.retailmenot.com/blog/ideas-for-celebrating-halloween-during-covid-19.html
- Attractive Source: https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/coronavirus/halloween-tips-for-safe-fun-during-the-coronavirus-pandemic
Credible
I chose the CDC as my credible source because they are the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention because they have been studying diseases since 1946 in a small building in Atlanta. The CDC is ran by well trained Doctors with tons of years of experience. They have became the company we trust with the COVID-19 crisis. They have argued with us as people to wear masks and to just stay safe when no one else was helping us.
Non-Credible
The Retail Me Not website is a website that you get store coupons from. So i dont undrstand why they made a website on how to stay safe during Covid-19 halloween time. They dont have any doctors working there so how would they know what we should to stay safe. they are specifically a website to save money in clothes.
Attractive source
I do feel like this attractive source was effective because for one the source was from john hopkins university and for 2 the picture of the website was very attractive and i do feel like the more attractive the website is people will think that the website could be correct and since they took time to make it look good then the information that they are giving is correct.
Blog Four 10/11/2020
For this exam did pretty well. I personally didn’t do the study guide because I read the book and made interactive notes because i am a hands on learner. Since I didn’t use the review sheet I didn’t really space anything out. So when I did my notes I did them per chapter so breaking them down were the best for me so I was not cramming all the information all at once. Going over the 4 questions that I missed I realized that I juts need to read a little bit more because the questions were easy and simple. I do think that this method of reading the problems better will help me a lot because sometime I do feel like I rush through tests and end up getting things wrong or I second guess my self on questions even though I remember one of my high school teachers always saying “your first choice most likely is the right choice”.
Blog Three 10/04/2020
My boyfirend and I have two different music Tastes. Im a country music type of person and he is a Rap and raggae type of guy. Even though we both have different tastes we respect each others genres of music. The longer desmond and i are toghether the more and more i start to love his music. Him and i do have same the values in life and that is to just go with the flow of things. Ideals we also share the same as we both want to get married when we both have our lives together and we have a understanding with eachother about different things in our lives; Like school, living together, student loans and just life in general.
Picture of Desmond and I
Music Playlist
- Desmond (Boyfriend)- Bless the broken Road (Rascal Flatts)
- Mom- Die from a broken heart (Maddie & Tae)
- Sister-Lovely (Billie Eilish & Kahlid)
- Dad- I Love you (Billie Eilish)
- Brother- Bad Boys (Inner Circle)
- Myself- Scars to your self (Alessia Cara)
Blog Two 09/27/2020
What Kind of Student am I?
After doing the General-Self Efficacy Scale. My score of 3.5 made me realize is was considered a Higher Perceived General Self-Efficacy Student. I do believe my Score is pretty accurate now. For a long time I was a Lower Perceived General Self Efficacy student. It took a long time for me to become the student that I am currently am now. I feel like if I study more and able to concentrate more I will become a better student. With my Score of 3.5 I learned a lot about what type of student I am. The General Self-Efficacy Scale Made Realize I am way a better student than I thought I was. I can Solve Different and Difficult Problems with out feeling stressed. My Coping ability to get through things are pretty good because I do work full time so me being able Work under high pressure and always stressed with things because I am in control of billing at a PT clinic. So working at a fast pace and working to make sure things are done correctly is something I’m really good at.
Blog One 09/20/2020
I personally feel like this first part of this class is just they beginning to an amazing class. I do believe this class is a great stepping stone up to teach us student how to socialize with other people in this world with different boundaries , backgrounds, and roles. I also am currently really enjoying making a website about my self. My expectations for this class is pretty high, I want to be able to learn how to socialize and understand different people with different roles in society. Me wanting to be a Criminal Analyst in my future I want to gain different sets of skills of understanding criminals and victims of trauma. My strategy to do great in this class is to continue taking good notes, stay organized and stay anxiety free.
I posted a picture of my notes from module one and flowers on my desk and a new picture I got to hang up in my room. When I feel stressed or overwhelmed I have a thing for flowers and simplicity of things. The tend to calm me down and it is a constant reminder that I am blessed in every way.
