The second helping skill was how I attended to each person I was communicating with. Before going on the trip I was told and read that having congruency in my verbal and nonverbal communication was important. I attended to my own personal behavior to show the girls that I was open. My body language was open and inviting to what they had to say and I gave them my full attention. When they were talking with me I also mirrored their emotions in the vibe of the conversation. I was genuine with my demeanor during the conversation. This was not only a sign of respect from me but gave an opportunity to create rapport.