Blog 5
- I am independent
- I am outgoing with close friends
- I am strong willed
- I am cautious
- I am optimistic
- I am curious
- I am active
- I am caring
- I am a good sister
- I am straightforward
First, numbers 2, 8, and 9 are associated with interdependent construal of self as my sense of self is based upon how I am with my friends and family. I’m a shy person by nature when it comes to new people and experiences. However, around my siblings I am a good sister that is caring and when I am around a close few friends I am outgoing. Secondly, the rest of the numbers are associated with independent construal of self as these define how I perceive myself as internal attributes. I am optimistic about life as I tend to become curious about things I would like to learn or new things that I would like to try. Also, I am a strong willed individual and tend to become determined to do something when advised against. Living and learning is a way I was raised. I am also an active person, not just for running and exercise, but hiking has given me the opportunity to enjoy nature and is a goal that I set aside to do for myself once a month by exploring new places. Never limit your expectations for yourself. Lastly, based on the analysis of the above statements, I believe I have more of an Independent construal of self.
Independent Self- “In art the most unrealistic and abstract the painting is the one that has the most individuality”
Interdependent self- “In a flock of birds, don’t become an crow”
Deciding on an English proverb that best fit Independent self was significantly easier than thinking of something for Interdependent self. In knowing that I believe it was easier to come up with Independent because I have more of a grasp on the concept of Independent self than I do Interdependent.