Blog 8

I find some truth in this article. I am a very self-aware individual and I notice a lot of things that most people wouldn’t put pass them. I also pay close attention to my surrounding in which out in public, I will see mostly people, strangers going about their everyday lives and I will study their facial expressions and how they act in public. Point being is after reading this article I can see much of the readings to be accurate. Prior to consummation both men and women will lie or pretend to be something they are not to attract a mate or even convince them that they like one another, but only to get sex without the other person realizing. You will see this mostly at bars and clubs, but also in work places and in schools. After the relationship has formed, I do see mostly women playing the jealousy card more so than the guy. Women tend to over react as men seem to be more laid back and don’t care what their partner is doing because most guys, I know want that alone time, so they could careless what they are doing. After a break, up I do see both sexes can become stalkers and unable to except the break up. I still think it’s more women who will stalk more so than the guys, but I could be wrong. I just know personally how women can be, specially when jealous.

In my experience, men don’t purposely go out their way to make a woman mad, they unknowingly do and then after the fact wonder what they did wrong. Like men will talk to other women in front of their partner and to her it may seem like flirting, but to him he’s just casually talking.  Women will not leave men list for things to do, rather tell them and expect them to remember, but most men tend to forget to do the things she asked thus making her mad. Some other examples would be leaving the toilet seat up, leaving laundry on the floor next to the dirty laundry basket, or forgetting to pay bills.

Again, in my experience women will purposely go out their way to upset the men. Like a test to see how they will react. Women will constantly call or text a guy to annoy him. Women will purposely start stupid arguments again to see how he will react or to show him whose boss. Women will also embarrass the man in front of others, even in public not thinking how it would affect him, as she is going out of her way to embarrass him as women find it amusing, but of course most men find it upsetting, annoying, and making him angry.

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