My takeaway from assignment 4 is that we all have different ways that we love. Assignment  4 was to take a questionnaire to find out what styles of love you are high or low in. Loving in these ways can be good and bad in some aspects. I believe that have a little from each style is best. So that one style cant be over expressed. If over expressed you can become to one-sided. I also learned what styles of love I use, which came as a shock to me at first. I learned that I’m high In the ludus style of love. Which isn’t good in my situation. This had made me realize I play to many games within my romantic relationships. I chose this picture because I thought it was a good representation of relationship games. Their playing chess which is a game of strategy. I tend to be very strategic during my relationships. In the picture, the guy looks like he is having fun playing the game, while the girl isn’t. A good representation of having the ludus love style in a bad way.

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