Blog 10
When I first started this class, I had really high expectations. I would like to think that this class succeeded my expectations because of how much I learned. I feel that my I knew a little bit about social psychology before I took this course, but after taking this course, I realized how in depth it goes about the topics. I would like to say one objective that I achieved is “in which people perceive and attempt to understand others”. While learning about this, I realized that everyone wants to be perceived in a different way, but not everyone is what they perceive to be. I think that I have become more open minded since taking this course. I have always been open minded but this course helps me look at the way people react from a different point of view. If I took this class again, I would definitely pay more attention to the objectives that I was not that interested in because all of this information is valuable and will help me with my future career. One skill that I have found extremely valuable and will take with me to utilize in my professional life is how we form close relationships with those that are different from us. It is important because there are going to be people who are different from you and you need to know how to respect them.
I chose this picture because it represents my favorite topic that we have learned about in this course. As mentioned above, I talked about how people like to be perceived in different ways. This topic is interesting to me because not everything or everyone is what it seems. I think it is important we remember that because if you see that not everything is as it’s perceived, then you try and look for potential. And potential eventually leads to being let down.
Blog 9
Throughout this semester in social psychology, I feel like I have learned more in depth about topics that I am highly interested in them. One go these topics being conformity. I honestly can relate the topic of conformity to about every class that I have this semester. However, one class that comes to mind specifically is my adolescence psychology class. In one of the chapter we talked about adolescents and friends. One of the topics in that chapter had to do with peer pressure and how friends have a bigger impact on their decisions. While I was reading through this chapter, all I could think about is conformity. I can also relate conformity to my criminal psychology class and some of the cases we have talked about that have to do with leaders. This relates because I feel like the people conform in this situation due to having a leader, and not being able to think for themselves. I think this relates because people usually conform so they are not considered an outcast. Another topic that I can relate to my other courses is self-presentation. I can relate this to my interpersonal relations class because we all represent ourselves in different ways, and it is nice to respect the things people choose to represent them and who they are.
I chose this picture because social psychology talks about everything. Not only does it go more in depth about social skills, but also the aspect of why we are the way we are. A lot of the topics are relatable as they should be, but it makes it a lot easier to read people in a sense. It gives me a better understanding of the people in my life and their reactions.
Blog 8
When I first read this article, I was not surprised by what I read. I think that there are many people in the world who often deceive people to get what they want, and when it comes to sexual desire some people are desperate, so they will tell you what you want to hear. I agree that when it comes to sexual conflict often happens when the sexual interests clash. For the most part, most people know exactly what they want before they start something with someone, and when the other person does not want the same thing it can be a problem. For example, this often happens on dating sites like Tinder. There have been so many people that I have met that tell me people will express that they have willingly told someone a lie to get what they want. Not only do I agree with the beginning of the article, but I agree with what happens before, in the middle, and after the relationship. I think it is in our human nature for all of this to occur.
When it comes to making a man angry, I honestly think that it does not take a lot. For the most part, a lot of guys are relaxed and the littlest thing can set them off. For example, if you interrupt him while he is playing his video games, then it it like the end of the world. It is actually very funny that guys get mad at stuff like that because if it is the other way around then it’s okay. When it comes to making a woman angry, I think that it has to do with simple things. For example, I know for a fact that when a guy lacks effort, it creates a lot of conflict. I think that everyone gets mad for different reasons, but lack of communication is what makes us not understand why it is a big deal.
This picture below describes what happens when a girl gets mad for a specific thing and vice versa. We often get mad at our significant other for certain things when they do it, but when we do it, we think that it is fine. I think that this is due to lack of communication, and this makes us hypocritical. We do not find anything wrong with our actions but when someone treats us how we treat them we don’t like it. Overall, it is something all relationships struggle with.
Blog 7
I think it is safe to say that self-regulation and emotional intelligence go hand in hand. I say this because self-regulation is what allows for us to control our thoughts, behavior, and even our emotions. With that being said, if we can control our emotions, then we get to express how we handle situations that involve our emotions. To me, emotional intelligence is being able to express your emotions whether it be with yourself or in relationship. For example, one way I can improve my EQ is by recognizing my faults with not expressing my emotions when it comes to relationships, this is simply because I know if I do not express them then no one can hold it against me. Due to this, I know I have low EQ.
The picture below are my results of an emotional intelligence quiz I took, I was honestly surprised by the results because I did not expect to have a high EQ, as I mentioned above that I think I have a low EQ. Even though this test says that I have a high EQ, I would like to improve my EQ when it comes to those that I care about. Overall, I feel like it was good for me to take this test as it shows where I can improve and where I am doing well.
Blog 6
After I watched this video, I want to say that I was not surprised. Women and girls have always been sexualized and Jean Kilbourne highlighted that. Not only did she highlight how women and young girls are often objectified, but she made it known that yes it can happen to men and boys, but it does not happen often. Even though she expresses that it does not happen as often to men as it does women, I think that this brings to light how uncomfortable it can be and how really dehumanizing it can be as well. In a sense, it makes you feel useless and that your body is all that you are good for or have to offer. With that being said, in today’s society, I think women have gotten so used to being sexualized that they are starting to sexualize themselves, which now that they do it, it is a problem.
The picture below shows five ads that have objectified women to catch the attention of consumers so they buy their products. Before I went looking for the ads, I am going to be honest, I have never realized how often women appear in these ads. Majority of the ads contain a women’s body that ends up being sexualized for the product. I think we have all been made aware of how bad it is, but I think it is something that will continue because women are mainly seen as objects, and it will always be the women’s fault. In these ads, you can tell that the most vulnerable parts of a girls body are being used to catch the eye of consumers, which I think is gross. I personally think that a girl or women should be allowed to express themselves in any way they would like, but it should never be okay for a girl or women to be objectified.
Blog 5
Advertisements are tricky when it comes to determining whether or not if the product being advertised is worth it. A lot of ad campaigns try to present their products in a type of way that makes the consumer want to buy it. I have chosen three ads that are credible, not credible, and attractive.
For the first ad, going from top to bottom, I would say this is a credible ad. I say this because it uses the words “4 out of 5 dentists”, which in a way is presenting a fact. It also lets the consumers know that they can trust the product that can help them, and is recommended by a professional. The second ad, I would say is not a credible ad. I say this because the message presented is not helpful at all. The message could also send the wrong message to the consumer due to how it is worded, which would make them not want to buy it. The third ad, is neither credible or nit credible. I say this because it draws the consumers attention by being attractive. The way that the ad is presented is what ultimately draws the consumer in. In this case, the ad would look appetizing because it is food. The last ad also offers a deal, which helps bring consumers in.
Blog 4
Unfortunately, I did miss my Exam 1; therefore, I will not be able to discuss my results. However, I have learned from this mistake. In order to not let this happen again, I wrote down all my exams for each class to ensure I know when they begin and when they end.
Blog 3
When I first read the title of this article, I did not think that it was going to be about music and the people you surround yourself with. However, it makes sense that a lot of people who have the same music taste have a deeper connection. Music is a a good soul connection and I think this may be because people can connect with music either for the lyrics they relate to or the message that the song gives overall. I can definitely say that the people closest to me have the same music taste. Of course, there are songs that I listen to that they do not, or vice versa. However, in the article it said that people who potentially have the same vibe in music usually share similar values and goals. Until I thought about it, I did not realize that we all pretty much do.
My soundtrack for the key people in my life differ in the songs that I chose. The first song that I chose to include in my soundtrack is for me. The song is “I AM WOMAN” by Emmy Meli. I chose this song because I often forget my worth and this is a good uplifting song for me, and it is very catchy. The second song that I chose is for my family. The song is “Count on me” by Bruno Mars. I chose this song because it describes the relationship that I have with my family. Regardless, I will always be there for my family and I know that they will always be there for me. The third song that I chose to include in my soundtrack is for my youngest sister, The song is “Let It Go” by Idina Menzel. I chose this song because it represents a core memory of us watching the movie Frozen for the first time, and she used to always sing it or ask for it to be played. The fourth song that I chose to include in my soundtrack is for my brother. The song is “Young and Beautiful” by Lana del Ray. My brother and I share a mutual interest in this artist and he never fails to play her songs when I am in the car with him. This was also the first vinyl that I bought for him. The fifth song I chose to include in my soundtrack is for my auntie. The song is “Hollaback Girl” by Gwen Stefani. I chose this song because I always remember going to my auntie’s house when I was younger and singing this song with her in the mirror. Because of her, this is still one of my favorite songs. The last and final song that I chose to include in my soundtrack is for my sister. The song is “Some Nights” by Fun. I chose to include this song because it reminds me of the road trip I took with my sister to JMU in 2018. Overall, I feel like all of these songs are attached to a good memory or they relate to how I feel about the people I dedicated them to.
Blog 2
I personally think that I am a hard working student and I do try my best. However, there are those times where I get stressed and start to slack off. This definitely has to do with the fact that I tend to procrastinate. I would say that doing my assignments over time would help with this. It is just so hard for me to finish an assignment until the very last minute that it needs to be done. Other than that, I would like to think of myself as well rounded.
The picture below represents my GSE score. It was twenty-eight, so it wasn’t too low, but it was also not that high. Given all the questions that were in this questionnaire, I would say that I answered them all honestly, which is why I am not mad at my results. I know my strengths and I know my weaknesses, this questionnaire just made it easier for me work on things I am not so good at.
Blog 1
When I first decided to take social psychology, I honestly just figured I would learn about the social aspect of psychology and the emotions that go with it. However, after I read the objectives, I learned that it will go more in depth than just the social aspect. It really boils down to how we are as people and we react based on our social skills. I have high expectations for this class, as I want to learn about everything this class has to offer. I am especially interested on how certain factors lead to our liking of other individuals and how it can lead to potential relationships. I truly believe that this class will help me with my socials skills and my reactions to certain real-life situations. In order to comprehend the basics of this class, I plan to use what I learn in situations that have been presented in my life.
The picture below is a picture of my chapter three notes on social perception. In the beginning of this chapter, we learned about nonverbal communication. One subtopic of this topic is facial expressions. Throughout life you often meet individuals who may not say something with their words, but their facial expressions say it all. I think this is a key factor in social psychology, as there are different types of nonverbal cues we can pick up on. Being able to distinguish what that nonverbal cue is, determines on how well your social skills are.
